I See The Truth In You

I came to the realization that I have been stuck for a long time. Though there has been some progression I have to be completely and totally honest with myself. I could have gotten a lot further if only I had truly seen myself for exactly what I was.

Not to say that I was bad or anything…but just that there are some things about me that desperately needed to be revamped. There were old attitudes and belief systems that honestly did not work for me anymore…and some that were faulty from the very beginning.

There was also times when I had been swayed to move when I shouldn’t or stand firm when I should have let go.

All of this boils down to my unwillingness to allow my reality to change.

So what is reality: Reality by definition is the true situation that exists.

So in essence your reality is your truth. That is why is so difficult to change your reality. It would mean having to change your truth. It would mean admitting that something you have based your life on may be a lie or simply not what you thought is should be, or could be. It means that something in your reality has influenced your perspective and it needs to be changed.

For example: If you truly believe that you are failure then you will never allow your realty to tell you anything different. You will self -sabotage, you won’t try new things, you will not invest in your future…because in your mind what would be the point. The reality is that you are going to fail because you are a failure. So ultimately you will create the reality that is true to you.

We must have a fluid perspective. One that is renewed, moves, and changes.

So here are 4 ways to know if your perspective is allowing your reality to change

  1. You do not assume to know all the details. God tells us to not lean on our own understanding. That he knows the plans he has for us. That he is the author. The truth; the reality is that we do not know everything and we do not always know the outcome but we have try anyway. A fluid perspective is one based on faith.
  2. Your perspective is not limited: God once asked me” why are you basing your future on your present situation”, this shocked me because he was completely right. I had placed limits on myself without even realizing it. Whenever we limit ourselves if based off of money, time, what have you we have just changed our truth. A fluid perspective believes in limitless possibilities.
  3. You are always taking in new information: Whenever we think we know it all we have accepted the truth that it can’t get any better. Things don’t have to be bad to get better. If you are a millionaire why not be a billionaire. If you have one successful business why not have two or find ways to make your business more successful. A fluid perspective is always looking for ways to progress.
  4. You are willing: You have to simply be willing. Willing to look at things differently. Willing to admit when you are wrong. Willing to try a new thing or even go back to and old idea if it works. A fluid perspective is always willing to change.

This week God has really been speaking about perspective. There is a spiritual law of Perspective because there is a spiritual power in perspective. All spiritual laws have the power to create and destroy and neither one of these are good or bad. Sometimes things need to be destroyed so other things can be created.

The point is to allow both to happen! Allow your reality to change!!!


Quote: Things don’t have to be bad to get better.

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Though seasons change

Ok so I was sitting here trying to work on a business endeavor that seems to just be going nowhere. I was getting so frustrated with the whole process. I began to question my own abilities, gifts, and talents. But then I began to think…what if it is time to let this business venture go. What if it is out of season?

So here are 4 ways to tell if you are out of season:

  1. You can tell you are out of season when something has no life: It is time for a new beginning. A new beginning means something fresh. Like a fresh anointing renews us it regenerates us. Life moves. It changes and is always creating something new. If you have a business, a blog, an idea that isn’t generating new possibilities it is out of season. Give it a fresh anointing. Let go of the old and create something new! Ecclesiastes 3:1-2To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born…
  2. You can tell when you are out of season when your investment gives no return: Lots of times we do things too fast. We are a society that prides itself on quantity not quality. We want to get as much done as fast as possible. We think building a business, writing a book or what have you should be done in a day. Then we are surprised when we do not see the profits are the benefits. But you can’ reap what you haven’t sown. If you feel that you are not getting anything in return for what you have put in maybe you uprooted your harvest before it had time to produce. Ecclesiastes 3:1-2To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted…
  3. You can tell you are out of season when you have no passion: Passion is what fuels our desire. We can have the desire to start a business but if we have no passion for it, no drive, no love for it then we will not do it. Or even worse when our passion dies in the process we begin to hate the very thing we used to love. If this is you then this is a season of letting go. Maybe not starting anything new but just giving up what has long died in your heart. Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: a time to die…
  4. You can tell you are out of season when there is no reason: You will lose passion for what does not have purpose. It is purpose that gives you the energy to invest. It is purpose that gives you new life, it is purpose that gives what you are doing quality and that quality will shine through!! Ecclesiastes 3:1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven…

So I will give you an example to show you that when you move with the seasons you will be successful.

I had a blog…well a couple of blogs before this one but there was no new energy in those blogs. I invested time into those blogs but they were still very immature. I published them too soon and so my return for my investment was not profitable. And, in the end I lost my desire to write for those blogs. I even hated to read those blogs. The topics had no true purpose to me. I could have been writing about cake one day and cars the next but none of those topics were really close to my heart.

So I had to give birth to a new creation a fresh blog with budding ideas. A blog with the energy of life contained within it. I constantly poured energy into this blog and did not publish it until it was ready to be read by the public. And, in the end…I love this blog. I am completely overwhelmingly passionate about it. There are times when I don’t have the creative energy to write but it’s the passion I have for this blog that will give me inspiration. This blog has purpose! It helps me give people the opportunity to learn and grow!

The blog you are reading was born in season. It has life, it has success, it has passion and it has a purpose!!

You have to live and work within the season.

So I challenge you to take a fresh look at whatever you are doing and figure out; is it in season…

Quote: You will lose passion for what does not have purpose.

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Blessings and See You Next Time!!